The more ppl around you try to pull me down, the stronger i'll stand. Things happen...good or bad. and i believe everything happens for a purpose and for a reason. and the reasons behind everything are the good ones. they seems to be trying hard to bring u down sometimes, but it actually helps u to grow..to be a better person and tat's how someone learn. learning is never all bout books but bout ur experiences and things that u have been thro. and all these things make u who u r. tat's why everyone is unique and no other ppl will be the same as u. without challenges, we'll just be living in our own little world and thinking we r just good enuff for everything and prevent ourselves from learning further. sooner or later, we will be a loser after all.dun be afraid of losing for now, go for things that are against u but not avoid it! sometimes u'll fail, but u gain life experiences and winning will be a bonus for ya and eventually u'll be a winner. Loser to Winner is always the way to go. =)