Distance~!

wad does the word distance means to u? from dictionary.com..it means the extent or amount of space between two things. distance doesnt onli meanst physically apart from each other but if 2 ppl think differently and have different way of thoughts, the distance does exist as well.

distance...it could be a good thing sometimes. getting to close with someone, knowing every single thing bout each other including the goods and bads is sometimes too overwhelming and relationship just cant be continued smoothly due to tat. it's basically because we r not ready to accept each others' negative yet. another thing is tat when u get too close with someone, ur expectation towards that person will be higher. and when the expectation is not archieved, it follows with disappointment. but once the distance exist, expectation falls from smses everyday to email once a week; from knowing things happen to each others everyday to as long as u r doin good, i'm happy. it also helps in letting go some of the things that u used to hold on to it a lot as well as forget bout the bad and sad things happened. time can cure and it's the same for distance. it helps u to pick up the goods and leaving the bad memories hidden somewhere isolated in ur brain. mebe it's due to ppl natural response to worry of losing something.

in the other hand, distance btw 2 ppl prevent them to know each other better. a wall exist btw the 2 of them and making them no longer transparent to each other. and as time passes, the wall become thicker and thicker. distance for a short while might be good to cool down the whole situation but once it existed for too long, it might cause some trouble. therefore, if we do care bout someone, try to keep a certain distance...so that u wont lose them ;p